Eloping is amazing… and it can also come with a rollercoaster of emotions that no one really prepares you for. As an experienced elopement photographer, I’ve seen it all. The happy tears, the “did we make the right choice?” moments, the peace, the butterflies, and sometimes a little bit of guilt, too. So if you’re feeling all of it at once? You’re not alone. And honestly, it’s totally normal!

You Might Feel Joy and Grief at the Same Time

One of the coolest things about eloping is the freedom. You get to do your day your way, no pressure, no performance, no timeline chaos. Just you two doing something that feels meaningful. But even when it’s exactly what you want, it can still stir up other stuff. Maybe you always imagined your dad walking you down the aisle. Maybe your family doesn’t totally get why you chose this path. Or maybe you just feel a little off not doing the whole big wedding thing. That’s okay! Seriously. You can feel so excited and still grieve what you’re not doing. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong!

Eloping Gives You Space to Feel it All

As an experienced elopement photographer one of my favorite things about elopements is that you actually have time to slow down and be present. There’s no big crowd, no packed schedule. You can take it all in. Especially at a location like Yosemite! I always tell my couples to make space for quiet moments, just take a deep breath and look around. You don’t have to rush. You get to actually feel your wedding day, not just fly through it.

How Can I Support You Through it All

If this all feels a little overwhelming, that’s where I come in. I’m not just your elopement photographer, I’m helping you find the best locations, build your timeline, be your emotional support girl, and (if you need one) your officiant too! I help with the real stuff. Like when you’re feeling unsure, when you need someone to help you build a day, and when you just want someone to tell you it’s going to be okay!

Considering Eloping? I want to be Your Elopement Photographer!

If you’re still debating whether eloping is the right move, or if you’ve already done it and you’re having a lot of feelings know that you’re not the only one. And nothing about how you’re feeling is wrong! Eloping is a bold, beautiful choice. It’s okay to feel a little tender about it, even as you’re soaking in the joy. If you’re dreaming of having your elopement in Yosemite and want someone who will be with you through it all, I’d love to be your elopement wedding photographer. You can see my work here and contact me here!