If you’re dreaming of a wedding day that actually feels laid-back, intimate, and without all the pressure of a huge guest list, you’re in the right place! A big, traditional wedding isn’t for everyone (and it doesn’t have to be). But once you know you want something smaller, the next question is: how small? Should you elope? Or would a micro wedding be a better fit? Let’s dive into the difference between an elopement vs. micro wedding and how each one actually looks like so you can start planning a day that truly feels like yours!
So, What Even Is an Elopement?
So, what even is an elopement? It’s not about running off to Vegas anymore. Today’s elopements are deeply personal, adventure-packed, and totally centered around you two and your love story! Elopements usually include 0–10 guests (sometimes no guests at all!) and can happen anywhere: mountains, forests, city hall, you name it. They come with minimal logistics, meaning less scheduling and more freedom to do whatever feels right. Elopements are all about intentional experiences like private vows, sunrise hikes, or sunset picnics. If you’re craving zero pressure, more freedom, and a day that feels like a giant exhale, this might be exactly what you’re looking for!
Okay, So What’s a Micro Wedding?
Micro Weddings are the happy middle ground! Smaller than a traditional wedding but a bit more structured than an elopement. Typically, they include 10–40 guests, with that sweet spot being around 20–30. You still get those classic wedding moments like a ceremony, dinner, and toasts just on a more intimate scale. There’s a little more planning involved, like seating, food, maybe a DJ, and some extra vendor coordination. Micro Weddings are perfect if you want your people there, but not the entire extended family. They’re for couples who want that cozy, personal vibe but still want to celebrate with their closest friends and family.
Elopement vs. Micro Wedding: The Key Differences
| Feature | Elopement | Microwedding |
| Guest Count | 0–10 | 10–40 |
| Focus | Just the couple | Couple + guests |
| Planning | Super simple | More logistics |
| Vibe | Intimate, adventurous, flexible | Personal, a little more structured |
| Timeline | Totally flexible | Has some flow |
| Cost | Usually lower | Moderate |
| Ceremony Spot | Anywhere | Often needs chairs or setup |
How to Choose: Elopement vs. Micro Wedding Questions to Ask Yourself
If you’re still stuck between the two, here are some things to think about:
- Do you want your day to feel like a private adventure or a shared celebration?
- Is it important to have family and friends there, or would you rather keep it just the two of you?
- Will you feel more relaxed with just your partner or with a small group?
- Are you dreaming of a Yosemite or Sequoia elopement? Would your people be down to travel?
- What kinds of photos do you picture looking back on? Just the two of you in nature, or moments surrounded by loved ones?
Can You Mix the Two? Yes!
Honestly, a lot of my couples create their own version of this and that’s the best part! You can exchange private vows during a sunrise adventure and later that day, meet up with your 20 closest people for a cozy dinner, a champagne toast, or even a backyard reception.
I’ve photographed so many days where couples blended the best parts of both. National parks, especially Yosemite, make it super easy to have that flexibility with the right planning!
How I Help You Plan Your Day
Whether you’re leaning toward an elopement or a micro wedding, I’ve got you covered! If you’re dreaming of a Yosemite or Sequoia elopement, I’ll help you scout the perfect location, handle the permit process, officiate your ceremony, and create a custom timeline that gives you space to truly soak in your day without the stress.
If a micro wedding feels more like your vibe, I can support you with vendor recommendations, advice on coordinating your guest experience, and flexible photography coverage that’s built around your unique celebration!
Still can’t decide? Let’s hop on a call. I’ll help you figure out which option feels right for you!
Ready for your Elopement or Micro Wedding? I want to be your Yosemite or Sequoia Photographer!
Whether you choose an intimate elopement or a cozy micro wedding, the most important thing is that you enjoy your day 100%! There’s no rulebook here. Both paths are beautiful, and meaningful! Let’s make your wedding day exactly what you want! Looking for an Yosemite or Sequoia Photographer? Contact me here! I can’t wait to hear from you!
